Boy, you are a tough crowd! But, that's OK. It has helped me a lot more than it has hurt me, so keep it up.
Here's a little review to get us to common ground.
First, I simulated the rear axle setup full scale. With the trailing arms parallel (my initial setting) it is surprising how little the axle moves, forward, backward, or out of level. Note the pointer on the front of the mockup, which allowed me to see visually, and also measure, how much it tilted when rising or falling. In practical terms, it doesn't matter if the upper arm is as long as the lower one for most things. There are exceptions. I did many simulations manually. The upper arm in this photo is 12" long.
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I ended up with an upper 14-1/2" long. That turned out to be close to the 70/100 ratio that old timers said was ideal for a street car. I never could find a reference book with REAL justification for that ratio claim. It also keeps the upper trailing arm inside the rear fender, which I wanted. The setup let me trace from +5" (bump) to -5" (droop), which should never happen, but then I know O'Toole's Corollary, so I take no chances. I also varied the angle of the trailing arms 2 degrees down (upper) and 2 degrees up (lower) in half degree increments. Things varied, but not as much as you might think until beyond 3" bump or droop.
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The front bushings are semi-rigid poly. The rear axle end is highly compliant in everything but forward or backward movement of the axle. So if something is wonky on a bump, it can move pretty easily with the front semi-rigid bushes being the anchor of the trailing arm.
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I can't say that I've tested the jacking up one wheel thing yet, but here's what I believe based on having the same rear axle in my much heavier, midsize truck. If I hit a one wheel bump of real significance, the car is going to move before the suspension has time to react. The car is very light, and the axle is pretty heavy. That's what the truck does anyway.
Now if all else fails, I can replace the rear axle rod end with a squishy, mushy OEM rubber bushing setup. I don't anticipate that will be necessary, though.
Cheers,